One of the hardest parts of parenting is holding two truths at the same time. Your child's feelings are important. And your child's feelings do not get to decide their behavior. This is an AND, not an either-or. For many parents, this is a new idea. We worry that if we do not give feelings full control, we are dismissing them. But in reality, teaching this distinction is one of the most important skills we can give our children. Understanding the Difference Between Feelings a